why do you smell and see what I smell and see so far away?

I just recently got in contact with a girl for whom I have always wondered how she was doing, and if I will ever see her again. I have held this close to my heart for a very long time. about a month ago I found her on Facebook. She is still very stunning to my eyes. We got to texting, we would do some catching up on one anothers lives and experiances. I could not have emagined that we would have so many simmialer things happen to us. I know things like this trigger some events, But not this many. I started looking up what this could be called, it sounds to good to be true, but it's not like that at all. I started feeling different. I do things now like treat everyone different, better then before. I know myself and this is not my way. Happyness of contacting an old love, but no. I'm doing better. I was reading about parallal lives but it only covered a small fraction of this case. even if the stories are not truth, Then why would it be something I would make up? it doesn't add up to anything I have read. Is it soul mates? is it gods gift of everlasting love. Or just games our minds play when enncountered with souch feelings? I don't feel it is. I would never secound guess myself like this. for instintis, all most burning down an astablishment. I had this same thing happen. Would I make it up? If I did how would she say something I would have said in a way just as she said. This is confusing. my head head hurts, I take a bath and so on at least half the day worth of events would be the same. I don't say anything about it the next day but she tells me and the only thing I ask is about what time she did these things. pretty dang close to the same time.